"This book is the shortest summary of over 20 years of very slow, and very challenging, self-reflection.

These are the more recent, more profound, AH-HA moments, my lifetime repeat offenses that were holding me back, my own bullshit that I needed to call bullshit on, so that I can become a better person for tomorrow.

May you; feel peace amidst loss, let clarity light the road for you, be open to honesty, and trust that love will steer you back to joy."

Kelly Mahoney

 

 

FOREWORD

In Lost In Loss: Bullshit and Light, the author invites us on a deeply personal journey through grief, healing, and the rediscovery of joy. This remarkable memoir, dedicated to the author's beloved brother Styvie and father Poppy, stands as a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the transformative power of love.
From the very first pages, you are enveloped in a voice that is raw, honest, and imbued with humor. Kelly's reflections on loss and the complicated emotions that accompany it are relatable and poignant. They masterfully navigate the landscape of grief, illustrating that it is not a linear path but a winding road filled with unexpected turns, laughter, and moments of profound insight.
The dedication to family is woven throughout the narrative, serving as both a foundation and a guiding light for Kelly. Her brother’s presence is felt in every word, reminding us of the enduring bonds of love that transcend even the deepest sorrow. The author’s gratitude for her family—her mom Doll, husband Terrence, and miracle dog Cole—adds a warmth that radiates throughout the book.
One of the most striking elements of this memoir is Kelly's candid exploration of expectations and healing. There’s a powerful realization that having no expectations opened her to the possibility of everything. This insight resonates deeply and encourages us to embrace our own journeys without the burden of comparison or judgment.
The narrative is punctuated with moments of humor and lightness, a testament to her belief that even amidst loss, there is room for laughter. The “calling bullshit” philosophy becomes a mantra, urging readers to confront their truths and dig deeper into their own experiences. This refreshing approach makes the book relatable and engaging, as it invites us to reflect on our own lives and the “bullshit” we often need to confront.
As she navigates her grief, she also invites us to reconsider our definitions of loss. The notion that “there is no loss, just light” is a powerful reframing that encourages a shift in perspective.
Lost In Loss: Bullshit and Light is not just about grief; it’s a celebration of life, love, and the human experience. It serves as a guide for anyone who has ever felt lost in their own sorrow, offering hope and the promise of healing.

Kelly's journey is a reminder that it’s okay to feel deeply, to cry, to laugh, and to embrace the complexities of our emotions.
Kelly's heartfelt reflections will resonate with anyone who has faced loss, serving as a beacon of hope for those navigating their own paths through grief. A remarkable testament to the enduring light of love amidst the shadows of loss.

-Hilary C. Porta, The Life Architect

 

 

To purchase your copy of Lost In Loss: Bullshit And Light, contact Kelly Mahoney directly

631-872-2420

dynamicmassage.kelly@gmail.com

 

 

Some reader comments:

-I thought your book was amazing

-You know I thought the book was awesome! As for BS moments it's when I start thinking I'm responsible for the changes in myself rather than Christ! I always have to check myself

-I thought the book was great. I loved that she realized that you do not have to stay in your worst situations. That you have to take time and effort to truly reflect and figure out a way to move forward. She saw that she could learn, be grateful, humble and grow from it. Leading her to become a better version of yourself. Nice Job.

-Great read...I couldn't put it down!

-Yessss

-This book is raw, funny, and deeply moving look at grief-how it breaks you, how you survive it, and somehow you even find moments to laugh through it. Amazing

-I didn't want it to end

-this book has supernatural powers

-Your book opens up conversation and reflection. My friend…who rarely if ever has read anything I recommend… actually read your book and likes it. She said it was helpful.

-I really enjoyed it

-your bullshit alarms are hysterical but they are also on point

-written with a rhythm that is musical

-I loved it

-inspirational

-are you taking resumes to be in your “God Squad”?

-it resonated with me in many ways

-What a beautiful piece of work, all shining with the expanding love you have for those you’ve lost. You’ve done a masterful job of showing how you’ve harvested the Light in these relationships and events, in your very human and humble way. I hope and expect that this book will help others find their way through the stormy chaos of grief and loss. You are showing that, despite the pain, or maybe even because of the pain, we can become more through such tragedy and trauma. Of course, you’ve always been a strong being, so maybe others will have to strengthen-up to make it to your level. But you’ve planted the seeds of what is possible on your path of Light

-loving the book

-I thought I would read a few pages, well, I couldn't put the book down! You connect with people in a raw and emotional way.

-well written

-GREAT GREAT read, and the last page is exactly true. I can relate to alot of your writings.

-your writing soothes my soul

-raw emotion that connects with people

-I couldn't put the book down

-such an inspiration

-it's an easy read but one that makes you think

-As someone who has recently experienced the loss of my parents, I found this book to be both emotionally powerful and refreshing. Powerful, because it boldly deals with subjects and feelings that I have chosen not to face and instead compartmentalize and hide away. Kelly bravely faces the dark corners where grief can hide away and pulls it out into the light. Yet, she makes it clear that delving into present grief and that of the past is a process fraught with the pain of self discovery and "calling bullshit" to expose the truth. Refreshing, because it is honest, unique, heartbreaking and funny. This is Kelly's story, her colorful personality and that of her beloved family, friends and spiritual counselors are distinct and personal. However, she leads by example. Lost In Loss: Bullshit and Light has encouraged me to take inventory of my own grief and experiences in order to both grow and deeply appreciate those I've lost, but as Kelly points out, live on "in our hearts and minds".